Sunday, June 12, 2011

Fasting: What good is it to fast? Why fast? How should we fast?

Fasting, what good is it?:
Why is fasting something we should do?  How do we know it does any good for anything?  Well, Jesus did it and He told us to do so also.  If that doesn’t do it for you, then nothing else written below will likely convince you either; but read on anyway, and pray for some understanding of it.  It is Jesus Who asks us to fast and His Church is reminding us to do what He tells us.  He said it; so do it.
Jesus didn’t say that it would be nice if you chose to fast.  He said, “When you fast…” (Mat 6:16)  He expected that everyone would do it.  Fasting is a workout for your soul.  It strengthens it and provides you freedom.  You will become disciplined and learn to only feed your soul with good things.  Only through fasting and prayer were demons able to be driven out (Mark 9:27-29).  From very early times, men have fasted.  Jews during Jesus’ time fasted Tuesday and Thursday.  Christians moved those days to Wednesday (the day Judas betrayed Jesus) and Friday (the day of Jesus’ crucifixion).  We know from reading the Church fathers and the Didache (the teaching of the Apostles given to the earliest catechumens for instruction of the faith) that early Christians fasted on bread and water on Wednesdays and Fridays, beginning in apostolic times.  We are still asked to fast out of love on Fridays, as Catholics have done for two thousand years. 
Sadly, many Christians think of Friday fasting as a thing of the past, or only something done during lent.  The Friday fast was not something Catholics dropped.  The pain of sin for not abstaining from meat on Fridays was removed because, in today’s society, that was not much of a mortification.  Rather, the bishops have encouraged us to choose our own way of fasting, our own mortification, on every Friday.
From the Pastoral Statement on Penance and Abstinence, A Statement Issued by the National Conference of Catholic Bishops
November 18, 1966
  1. Friday should be in each week something of what Lent is in the entire year. For this reason we urge all to prepare for that weekly Easter that comes with each Sunday by freely making of every Friday a day of self-denial and mortification in prayerful remembrance of the passion of Jesus Christ.
Fasting helps break the ties that bind us, leading us to perfection.

 “It seems that God is calling you to great perfection.  And I perceive it by this, that He takes away from you every tie that might hinder it in you.”  --Saint Catherine of Siena
Fasting disciplines ourselves to give up something, to be able to let go of a material object, or even let go of an immaterial flattery.  Fasting is a way to make sure that we don’t have any attachments (which are in a sense, false gods) to anything but God.  We need to know that we are dependent upon God alone, not any thing, not any praise, not any well running cars.  As long as we can’t give up something, as long as we can’t freely give away something if someone needed it, we are not fit for the kingdom of God (See Luke 9:57-62).  Fasting disciplines our souls so that we may be ready and willing to forego something when necessary.
“A fat belly never breeds fine thoughts.” --Saint Jerome

 If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort you will not get either comfort or truth--only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin, and in the end, despair.” --C.S. Lewis
Fasting is the tool to fight selfishness and the desire to have an easy life, which we are not meant to have.
Tobit 12:8
Prayer is good when accompanied by fasting, almsgiving and righteousness.
Pope John Paul II:
“Jesus himself has shown us by his own example that prayer and fasting are the first and most effective weapons against the forces of evil (Mt 4:1-11).  As he taught his disciples, some demons cannot be driven out except in this way (Mt 17:20 and Mk 9:29).  Let us therefore discover anew the humility and courage to pray and fast so that power from on high will break down the walls of lies and deceipt:  the walls which conceal from the sight of so many of our brothers and sisters the evil practices and laws which are hostile to life.”
When we are praying with fasting, the Holy Spirit come to us to instruct and guide us:
Acts 13:2-3
And as they were ministering to the Lord, and fasting, the Holy Spirit said to them, “Separate me Saul and Barnabas, for the work whereunto I have taken them.  Then, they, fasting and praying, and imposing their hands upon them, sent them away.
Any undertaking, any mission, if we want it to be directed by God, should begin with fasting.  Before you make any big decisions--your job, your children’s education, your marriage sacrament, anything, begin with fasting as the apostles did.
Acts 14:22
And when they had ordained to them priests in every church, and had prayed with fasting, they commended them to the Lord, In whom they believed.
The Council of Trent was opened up with a rule of fasting for all clergy partaking in the Council.  From Session # 2, 1.2:
“Furthermore, it exhorts that they fast at least every Friday in memory of the passion of the Lord and give alms to the poor.”
There are many ways we can fast.  A great place to start is with our words.
 “When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but he who restrains his lips is prudent.”
--Proverbs 10:19

Conquering the tongue is better than fasting on bread and water.”--Saint John of the Cross
The soul will not attain sanctity if it does not keep watch over its tongue.” --Saint Faustina
Words that do not give the light of Christ increase the darkness.”  --Mother Theresa of Calcutta
Think about your conversations and consider if you are with God or against Him.  There is no in between.  You may think there is but there isn’t.
We can give up small pleasures, our time, a fun activity, expensive clothes, starting small and, eventually, working towards more difficult fasts, responding to whatever fasts we are called to do.  
“How could I bear a crown of gold when the Lord bears a crown of thorns?  And bears it for me!”
  --Saint Elizabeth, Queen of Hungary
“Beauty when unadorned is adorned the most.”  --Saint Jerome
You don’t need all the extra stuff that is for show, for pride.
Committing to follow Christ is committing to fasting.  It is easy to forget that this is part of following Christ. 
Why not learn to enjoy the simple things; there are so many of them.”  --Saint John Chrysostom
“As a moth gnaws a garment, so does envy consume a man.”  --Saint John Chrysostom
It is very hard to become envious of others when you have a habit of fasting, because when you are accustomed to going without, you soon realize how much you don’t need.  You won’t be envious, not just of things, but also of other people’s friendships, their time, their ease of life, and so much more.  It really gives you freedom.
Better is a handful of quietness than two hands full of toil and a stiving after wind.” 
--Ecclesiastes, 4:6
“Woe to me if I should prove myself to be a half-hearted soldier in the service of my thorn-crowned Captain.”  
--Saint Fidelis of Sigmaringen
Fasting is fighting, fighting against evil, and the battle is over your soul and your family members’ souls.  Be a strong man.  Do this difficult task for your thorn-crowned Captain.  Fasting is like having a MOAB bomb at your disposal.  All you have to do to get one is do it.  Demons are forced out by prayer and fasting.  Give yourself and your family this weapon!  Do it now, today, before the devil advances his work on you and you find yourself suddenly overtaken with family divisions.
“Arm yourself like a man against the devil’s assaults.  Curb your appetite and you will more easily curb every inclination of the flesh.  Never be completely unoccupied, but read or write or pray or meditate or do something for the common good.”  --From The Imitation of Christ, by Thomas a Kempis
Consider returning to the fast of all Christians of the past, by fasting on bread and water on Wednesdays and Fridays, out of love for God, and as a sacrifice for our sins, especially for the sins of others.  If you struggle and find it difficult, remember to start slowly, also fasting from other things in your life, and work towards this goal.  You didn’t learn to read overnight.  Work to develop this weapon over time.  Your prayers and fasting will help to deliver souls from temptation.

Wednesday, June 8, 2011

Pope Benedict XVI advice to Parents and role of Christian Family

Everyone knows that the Christian family is a special sign of the presence and love of Christ and that it is called to give a specific and irreplaceable contribution to evangelization. ... The Christian family has always been the first way of transmitting the faith and still today retains great possibilities for evangelization in many areas. Dear parents, commit yourselves always to teach your children to pray, and pray with them; draw them close to the Sacraments, especially to the Eucharist, ... introduce them to the life of the Church; in the intimacy of the home do not be afraid to read the sacred Scriptures, illuminating family life with the light of faith and praising God as Father. Be like a little Upper Room, like that of Mary and the disciples, in which to live unity, communion and prayer!".
--Pope Benedict XVI   June 4, 2011

Inspiring message from Pope Benedict XVI on the happiness that comes from Jesus even when suffering, directed to the youth but really for everyone

Pope Benedict XVI, June 4, 2011:


Jesus speaks to you today, through the Gospel and his Holy Spirit. He is your contemporary! He seeks you even before you seek him! While fully respecting your freedom, he approaches each one of you and offers himself as the authentic and decisive response to the longing deep within your hearts, to your desire for a life worth living. Let him take you by the hand! Let him become more and more your friend and companion along life's journey. Put your trust in him and he will never disappoint you!".

 

  "Jesus enables you to know at first hand the love of God the Father; he helps you realize that your happiness comes from his friendship, from fellowship with him. Why?  Because we have been created and saved by love, and it is only in love, the love which desires and seeks the good of others, that we truly experience the meaning of life and find happiness in living it, even amid difficulties, trials and disappointments, even when it means swimming against the tide".

 

  Benedict XVI emphasized that "Jesus is not a Teacher who deceives his disciples: he tells us clearly that walking by his side calls for commitment and personal sacrifice, but it is worth the effort". In this sense he encouraged the youth to not let themselves "be led astray by enticing promises of easy success, by lifestyles which regard appearances as more important than inner depth. Do not yield to the temptation of putting all your trust in possessions, in material things, while abandoning the search for the truth which is always "greater", which guides us like a star high in the heavens to where Christ would lead us. Let it guide you to the very heights of God!"

Pope Benedict XVI on importance of forming conscience

Benedict XVI, speaking to Croatians on June 4, 2011, spoke of conscience as "the keystone on which to base a culture and build up the common good. It is by forming consciences that the Church makes her most specific and valuable contribution to society. It is a contribution that begins in the family and is strongly reinforced in the parish, where infants, children and young people learn to deepen their knowledge of the sacred Scriptures, the 'great codex' of European culture; at the same time they learn what it means for a community to be built upon gift, not upon economic interests or ideology, but upon love, 'the principal driving force behind the authentic development of every person and of all humanity'".

Pope Benedict XVI on conscience and its role in societal success or failure:

"Truly, the great achievements of the modern age - the recognition and guarantee of freedom of conscience, of human rights, of the freedom of science and hence of a free society - should be confirmed and developed while keeping reason and freedom open to their transcendent foundation, so as to ensure that these achievements are not undone, as unfortunately happens in not a few cases. The quality of social and civil life and the quality of democracy depend in large measure on this 'critical' point - conscience, on the way it is understood and the way it is informed. If, in keeping with the prevailing modern idea, conscience is reduced to the subjective field to which religion and morality have been banished, then the crisis of the West has no remedy and Europe is destined to collapse in on itself. If, on the other hand, conscience is rediscovered as the place in which to listen to truth and good, the place of responsibility before God and before fellow human beings - in other words, the bulwark against all forms of tyranny - then there is hope for the future". --Pope Benedict XVI, June 4 2011

Tuesday, June 7, 2011

Pope Benedict XVI on humanism

Only if the human is an image of God does humanism flourish.
--Pope Benedict XVI. June 6 2011

Monday, June 6, 2011

Pilgrims Walk from Belgium to Medjugorje, a three year journey

This story is posted here on Medjugorje on the Web

Fr. Damien Lim: From paganism to Catholic Priest--Opus Dei Video

Damien Lim: from Paganism to the Priesthood


Recently ordained, Fr. Damien grew up in Singapore in a traditional Chinese family. In this video, he talks about how he discovered the "living God" of Catholicism.